Friday, September 21, 2012

Can You Keep A Secret?

Secrets have a way of getting out. You tell a secret near someone and ask them not to tell anyone else. Too bad things don't actually go that way :P They tell someone else, and ask them not to tell another soul (a) And the chain reaction continues. The "secret" gets all spiced up and shit. We all do this. We SPEAK. When we aren't supposed to. We violate each others trust. No one has a halo above their head when it comes to this because everyone, at some point will have blurted out another's secret. But I guess we should all know our limits about what to speak about and what not to, especially when it's not our "secret" to share. And also, i think we all should be more careful about whom to trust and whom not to. I mean, there's always prevention. Ways to avoid these kinda crap. You don't need millions of friends, just a few close "trustworthy" friends is more than enough. So, be loyal to those who trust you enough with their personal stories. Don't let them down. Be able to keep a secret. Because you wouldn't like it too, if someone breaks your trust. 

Got a secretCan you keep it? Swear this one you'll save  ♫♪

Wednesday, September 19, 2012

Guilty Pleasures

A guilty pleasure is something/anything we enjoy and consider desirable despite feeling "guilt" for enjoying it so badly. We probably feel "guilt" mostly because of the fear of someone else finding about our little lowbrow or maybe embarrassing tastes in life. And this can range from simple irrational craving for chocolates to weird personal habits.
So long story short, I think we just want to be "accepted" so much by our society that we fear that our wants might make them dislike us (think we are some sort of weirdo in other words :P ) and things turn out to be "guilty" pleasures. But then again, what someone like might not be something that you'd like and I see no reason to hide it. And also, I see no reason why someone else should criticize another because of this. It's not like they are the only one's having guilty pleasures. I feel that we should respect one another's likes/dislikes no matter how creepy/weird it might sound to you. Because that person would have valid reasons why he/she likes it.
Now, I guess the whole "criticizing" has kinda "decreased" like, people now know that it's okay to like different things. This is a good thing. And it's gonna be better than this maybe? someday.

"The heart wants what the heart wants - or else it does not care." - Emily Dickinson